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Something about the day was too banal, and there was too much. I knew I wasn't going to say anything personal to him ever again. Besides, technically, I had already moved on by then, following the directive that, at some point, you have to get back out there.

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What is also noticeable is the constant physical proximity when we are together: Not that things are simple. At the start I spent a lot of time fighting it, convinced I couldn't see anyone else until the shadow was gone. The truth is that it probably won't disappear altogether.

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