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Nor am I condoning, excusing or endorsing men's methods. Interesting essays could be written on how men should choose women, or how men wish they chose women. But we will focus on a topic of more practical interest: Femalee will take a clear-eyed look at that question, and maybe we will find that the truth has some redeeming qualities.

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But no matter how strange men are, if you're a woman who wants to meet the right man, you have to clue lookiing to how men think. Okay, "think" is a bit of a stretch. If you try to change men or just don't get them, you'll be stymied -- but if you accept how they are and forgive them and work with them, you will have enormous power and effectiveness.

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Pooking the first rule is, let men see you. This may seem too obvious to even mention, but in fact it is the key to the whole thing.

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If you make it difficult to be seen -- for instance, if you sit in the back booth with shades on -- you stop Step One from happening. So none of the other steps can happen. Note that being seen is particularly crucial -- and achievable -- if you are trying to meet Mr.

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Now let us ask, what are men looking for? What are they hoping to see? If you're feeling cynical, your answer may be, "Cameron Diaz. Men are, in the first place, looking for "attractive.

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Many men in our culture like slender, athletic female figures -- some men really do, and some say they do, because they are ashamed of admitting anything else to their male handsoem group. Some men want the rail-thin model type. But many men in our culture do not want a slender woman: Some men want very large women. And some men don't really care that much about body dor or shape.

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I know men who hate all blondes. Men who hate brunettes. Men who appreciate a good tan. Men who adore very pale skin. I knew a guy who got very turned on by a woman's handshake, if it was "as strong as a man's. All this may strike the sensitive, intelligent woman as superficial, even offensive.

Surely the cultured, educated, spiritual yet masculine man of your dreams doesn't look only at the outside of a woman. Scientists say men and women are both designed to be ruthlessly pragmatic in their criteria for a mate. Women are programmed by evolution to choose men based on their father darth, which is closely associated with status in the group -- what we now call money and power. Men -- regardless of their conscious attitude to having kids--are designed to look for good reproducers; a low waist-to-hip ratio of around.

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And in both sexes, facial beauty is hwndsome with grace, intelligence, popularity and, in general, fitness for survival. So Down to earth handsome male looking for fun female about how superficial men may be and realize that they, like you, are hard-wired in mysterious ways, which may or may not be as shallow as you think. Fortunately, many of them don't toe the evolutionary line anyway--apparently their wiring has come loose. Take faces, for example. It's clear that we lookjng far more in a face than looks.

We think we are reading souls. We look into the eyes Bradford chat swingers xxx the ,ale we are talking to, and we feel as if we can tell who they are, deep down -- what they value, what they love. With certain people, something about the face feels familiar, even familial.

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Many people strike us as somehow alien; but some faces arouse in us a strange empathy from the first time we set eyes on them. What is a man doing when he looks you over? On some level, quite possibly unconscious, he or his genes are trying to decide, could this person be a lover or is she just ffmale potential friend?

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I'm not saying he is sexually insecure: But therein lies the rub: Our evolving male has tried, with those mmale cells in his brain devoted to self-knowledge, to wrestle with this question. This has made him attentive to factors that influence his chemistry with women. Many of these factors are hard to pin down: And how many men have bravely catalogued the qualities of particular women that threaten their ego, and thereby their arousal?

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